Reality Bites

Winona, Winona, Winona! Winona Ryder, whatever became of her? Like other good and talented actors, writers and directors Mel Gibson, and Kevin Spacey who've slipped under the radar. Why aren't they making more great movies? Why was there no mention of her in the infamous 2010 film Black Swan? This 1994 Romantic Comedy starring Winona Ryder, awkward and young looking Ben Stiller and Ethan Hawke could have been your regular Jennifer Anistonesque fluff movie of the 21st century, however thanks to clever, witty and depth-beyond-her-years Winona Ryder's portrayal of Lelaina Pierce, it was actually a rather marvelous film.

It was a tale familiar to many of us, The Graduate without the older neighbor lady who sodomizes us because we've finally grown up; but instead The Graduate who understands that life isn't as easy as memorizing their social security number. That it's about responsibility and stabilizing their future, and that even if plans are made, life doesn't necessarily fit that mold.

Despite the typical and predictable story line, there were several under-lying troubles shared by the four friends that were pertinent to that time period. Winona's performance was exceptional in that she embodied her character's emotions, wants and fears. The chemistry between Troy played by Ethan Hawke and Lelaina Pierce played by Winona was powerful, and if the music didn't grip at your heart-strings, their relationship certainly would have.

I know many would think that the title of the film 'Reality Bites' may insinuate a negative outlook on life, but it is only a play on words. After realizing that it isn't the easiest to survive in a distressed economy and stressful to acquire a job in your field, at least you should still have those people who mean the world to you. The people who really know you, the people who really care, your rock, your scented candle that keeps you calm; or as Troy put it in the film, "All we need, is coffee, good conversation and 5 bucks!"

Certainly a feel-good movie, too bad Jennifer Aniston replaced the ever-so-talented and beautiful Winona Ryder… I sure hope Hollywood gives her a 2^nd chance! J